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The standard model of grief was built in a lab, not a hardware store. Dead Dads is the podcast for men who lost their fathers and found the usual advice useless, hollow, or just plain wrong.
Listen NowThe standard grief model hands you a tidy checklist — denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance — and implies that if you just move through each stage in the right order, you'll come out the other side healed. For men who've lost their fathers, that model falls apart almost immediately. It doesn't account for the password-protected iPad you can't get into, the garage stacked floor-to-ceiling with "useful" junk, the paperwork marathons that consume the first months of loss, or the grief that ambushes you in the middle of a hardware store on a Tuesday afternoon.
The conventional grief industry tends to treat loss as a process to be managed — with worksheets, hotlines, and five-step frameworks. What it rarely does is sit with a man in the specific, unglamorous, sometimes darkly funny reality of losing a dad. As we explore in our posts "Why the Clinical Model of Grief Fails Men After Losing a Father" and "Why Standard Grief Advice Feels Useless When Your Dad Dies", the clinical model was never designed around how men actually process loss — which is often through action, through humour, through shared experience, and through silence.
Hosts Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham started Dead Dads because, in their own words, "We couldn't find the conversation we were looking for." Both have lost their fathers. Neither found the standard resources spoke to them. The show covers the territory that gets skipped everywhere else:
If you've felt like the grief advice out there was written for someone else, you're not wrong. Our piece "What Happens After Your Dad Dies That No One Prepares You For" goes deeper into exactly why that gap exists — and what's on the other side of it.
Dead Dads doesn't offer a therapy session. It offers something closer to talking with two guys who've been there — honestly, without performance, and without forcing a silver lining where there isn't one. That's not a gap in the model. That is the model.
Every episode goes where most grief content refuses to go — the practical, the painful, and the occasionally absurd realities of losing your dad.
From estate paperwork to password-protected devices and garages full of stuff no one knows what to do with — the show covers the logistical chaos that arrives the moment grief does.
Not at the funeral. In a hardware store. At a barbecue. Dead Dads talks about the unexpected grief triggers that no one warned you about and nobody else seems to understand.
Guests like John Abreu — who received the call about his father's death and then had to sit down and tell his family — and Greg Kettner bring raw, unscripted storytelling that no clinical framework can replicate.
As explored in "Why Clinical Grief Podcasts Fail Men (And Why Dark Humor Actually Works)", humor isn't denial — it's often how men process the unbearable. Dead Dads doesn't apologize for that.
No one on this show tells you what grief should look like. It's the kind of peer-to-peer honesty explored in "Therapy vs. peer support vs. forced optimism: what actually helps grieving men" — a conversation, not a prescription.
As "Why Men Don't Engage With Mental Health Platforms — And What Actually Reaches Them" makes clear, most grief content doesn't reach men. Dead Dads was built from the ground up for men — not adapted for them as an afterthought.
“These are real words from men who found the show when they needed it most.”
"Great show and insight" — 5 stars
Most men who lose their fathers don't walk into a therapist's office. They walk back into work, back into their roles as husbands and fathers and sons, and they quietly absorb the loss while everyone around them moves on. The grief industry, for all its resources, hasn't built a compelling alternative to that silence — because it keeps speaking a language that doesn't match how men actually experience loss.
In "The 5 Lies the Grief Industry Tells Men About Losing a Dad" and "Man Up Is the Worst Advice You'll Get After Your Dad Dies", we break down the specific myths that keep men stuck: that grieving loudly is weakness, that time heals automatically, that moving on means forgetting. These aren't just unhelpful — they actively prevent the kind of processing that leads to real integration of loss.
"The Modern Man's Guide to Grief Podcasts: Why Raw Storytelling Beats Clinical Advice" makes the case that narrative — hearing another man say this is what it was like — does something that a framework simply cannot. It creates recognition. And recognition, for men who've been silently carrying their grief, is where everything starts to shift.
The community Dead Dads is building isn't a support group in the traditional sense. It's closer to what "Why Men Who've Lost Their Dads Find Each Other and What That Bond Actually Does" describes — a natural gravitation toward people who get it, without the performance that formal grief settings can demand.
No. Dead Dads is hosted by Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham — two men who lost their own fathers and couldn't find the conversation they were looking for. It's honest, peer-to-peer storytelling. Not therapy. Not self-help. Just real talk.
Not at all. Whether you lost your dad last month or ten years ago, the show covers experiences that resonate across the timeline of loss — including the grief that resurfaces at milestones, anniversaries, and ordinary moments, as explored in our post "Surviving Major Milestones Without Your Dad."
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Yes — and the hosts genuinely want to hear from you. The website has a "Leave a message about your dad" feature and a guest suggestion form. The only rule: no PR pitches, no polished bios — just real people with real stories.
Start with an episode like "What Happens After Your Dad Dies That No One Prepares You For" or the guest episode with John Abreu, who had to tell his family his dad had died after getting the call himself. If either of those hit close to home, you're in the right place. Read "After the Funeral: How to Build Real Support When Everyone Goes Home" for more on why this community exists.