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When you lose your dad, something shifts that most people around you won't understand. Dead Dads is the place where men who get it — because they've lived it — find each other.
Listen Free NowThis isn't a wellness show. It's the conversation most men never get to have — hosted by Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham, two guys who've both lost their dads and couldn't find the show they were looking for. So they built it.
Paperwork marathons. Password-protected iPads. Garages full of 'useful' junk your dad swore you'd need someday. We cover the practical chaos alongside the emotional wreckage.
The hardware store. A sports broadcast. A voicemail you can't bring yourself to delete. We talk about the triggers nobody warns you about.
Guests like John Abreu — who got the call and then had to sit his family down and tell them — and Greg Kettner, who opened up about his own grief journey. No polished PR. Just real people.
Sometimes the only honest response to grief is a laugh that catches you off guard. We don't apologize for that. Humor and loss aren't opposites.
No therapist-speak. No five-stage checklists. Just men talking to men about what it actually feels like to lose your dad and keep going.
Leave a message about your dad. Suggest a guest. Read what other listeners have shared. You're not the only one in this.
There's a specific kind of loneliness that settles in after your dad dies. It's not the kind that gets better at a dinner party or a work happy hour. It's the kind that sits quietly in the background of everything — at milestones, at holidays, in the middle of an ordinary Tuesday when a song comes on the radio. And for most men, the unspoken rule is to carry it alone.
But something strange happens when a man who's lost his father meets another man who's lost his. The walls come down faster than they should, by most social standards. There's no need to explain the weight of it or justify why it still hurts years later. As our post "Why Men Who've Lost Their Dads Find Each Other and What That Bond Actually Does" explores, this isn't coincidence — it's a particular kind of recognition. A shared fluency in a language most people around you don't speak.
Most grief resources — and the cultural scripts men are handed — fall short in predictable ways. They either push clinical frameworks that feel detached from real life, or they offer forced optimism that treats grief like a problem to be solved on a schedule. Our post "Why the Clinical Model of Grief Fails Men After Losing a Father" breaks down exactly why the standard model misses the mark, and it's worth reading if you've ever sat in a grief group and felt like you were from a different planet.
The pressure to 'man up' makes it worse. As we explore in "Man Up Is the Worst Advice You'll Get After Your Dad Dies", that cultural shorthand teaches men to compress grief into something private and silent — which means it goes unprocessed, surfacing years later in ways that are harder to trace. And as "Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later and What to Do With It" shows, that delayed wave is more common than anyone admits.
What fills the gap isn't always a therapist or a support group. Often, it's just another man who's been there. Our post "Therapy vs. peer support vs. forced optimism: what actually helps grieving men" takes an honest look at what each of these actually provides — and where peer support wins. The bond between men navigating the same specific loss creates something clinical models struggle to replicate: permission to be honest without performing recovery.
The Dead Dads Podcast exists in that space. Hosts Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham started it, in Roger's words, "because we couldn't find the conversation we were looking for." Every episode is built on the premise that the most useful thing you can offer a grieving man is someone else's real, unfiltered story — not advice, not a framework, just: here's what it was like for me.
“No download numbers. No awards. Just what actual listeners have said — in their own words — after finding the show.”
"Great show and insight" — 5 stars
No. Roger and Scott are not therapists — they're two men who lost their dads and couldn't find the conversation they needed. The show is peer-to-peer: real stories, honest talk, occasional dark humor. If you want a clinical resource, this isn't it. If you want to hear from someone who actually gets it, this is exactly it.
Not at all. Many listeners are years or even decades removed from losing their dad. As we explore in "Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later and What to Do With It", grief doesn't follow a timeline — and neither does this show. You might be processing something you thought you'd already dealt with. That's okay.
Good — neither are most of the guests. The show isn't about performing vulnerability. It's about honest conversation between men who've been through the same thing. Nobody's asking you to cry. They're just asking you to listen.
Dead Dads is available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, PocketCasts, and more. Wherever you already listen to podcasts, it's there.
Yes — and the hosts want you to. The website has a 'Leave a message about your dad' feature and a guest suggestion form for real people with real stories. The only rule: no PR pitches, no polished bios. Just people who've lived it.