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After losing your dad, grief doesn't follow a schedule. It ambushes you in hardware stores, old voicemails, and Sunday mornings. Dead Dads is the podcast that talks about all of it — honestly, and without the clinical fluff.
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After your dad dies, grief doesn't confine itself to the obvious moments. It shows up when you're standing in the lumber aisle wondering who you're supposed to call now. It hits when a song comes on the radio and you're suddenly pulled over on the side of the road. It blindsides you at a birthday party, a job promotion, or the moment you go back to your childhood home and realize nothing — and everything — has changed.
Hosts Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham — both of whom have lost their own fathers — built Dead Dads specifically because they couldn't find anyone talking about this stuff. Not the polished grief-stages checklist. The real stuff:
In episodes like "What Happens After Your Dad Dies That No One Prepares You For" and posts like "Why the Hardware Store is a Minefield After Your Dad Dies", the show maps out the emotional terrain that most grief resources skip entirely. Because the triggers aren't just the big calendar dates — they're woven into ordinary Tuesday afternoons in ways no one thinks to warn you about.
Dead Dads doesn't offer a hotline or a 12-step program. It offers something rarer: two guys who've been there, talking about it without flinching.
Hosted by Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham, *Dead Dads* goes where most grief content refuses to go. Here's what makes it different.
From songs that hit different to the gut-punch of going back to your childhood home, the show names the triggers you didn't know were coming — including the guilt, the anger, and the strange silence of milestones your dad will never witness.
Password-protected iPads. Paperwork marathons. A garage full of junk your dad swore was useful. Episodes cover the logistics of loss that pile on top of the emotional weight — and how to get through them without completely losing it.
Episodes feature real people — not polished spokespeople — sharing how they got the call, how they told their families, and how they've kept living after. No PR pitches. No tidy endings.
Grief is heavy. Sometimes you have to laugh, or you'll just stop functioning. The show embraces dark humor not to minimize loss, but because that's how a lot of men actually process it — and pretending otherwise doesn't help anyone.
Dead Dads is built peer-to-peer. Listeners can leave a message about their dad, suggest a guest, rate the show, and read what others have shared. You're not a passive audience — you're part of the conversation.
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One of the most disorienting things about losing your dad is that the grief doesn't peak and then fade on a predictable curve. For a lot of men, it resurfaces — sometimes harder than ever — years after the loss.
In "Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later and What to Do With It", the podcast confronts this directly. A song. A smell. The way someone holds a tool. "You Still Hear Your Dad's Voice. That's Not Crazy. That's Grief." — that's another one the show tackles without flinching, because too many men think something is wrong with them when it happens.
Some triggers are seasonal and brutal. "Father's Day Without Your Dad: Redefining a Holiday That Now Hurts" and "How to Handle Massive Life Milestones When You Can't Call Your Dad" both dig into what it means to keep showing up for life when the person you'd naturally call isn't there anymore.
Then there are the triggers that don't come from the outside at all — they come from inside your own head. Posts like "The Grief Guilt Trip: Why Feeling Bad About Your Relationship With Your Dad Is Normal" and "Why Being Pissed Off at Your Dead Dad Is Completely Normal" give language to the feelings most men bury because they don't know what to do with them.
And then there's the quieter, slower trigger explored in "After Your Dad Dies, You Stop Knowing What You're Working For" — the loss of direction that sets in when a foundational relationship is suddenly gone.
Dead Dads doesn't tell you how to feel. It just makes sure you know you're not the only one feeling it.
Not at all. Whether you lost your dad last month or ten years ago, the triggers and conversations on Dead Dads are relevant. Grief doesn't have an expiration date, and neither does this show.
No — and that's intentional. Dead Dads is peer-to-peer, not clinical. Roger and Scott aren't therapists; they're two guys who lost their dads and started the conversation they couldn't find anywhere else. Think of it as talking to someone who gets it, not a session with a professional.
That's exactly who this show is made for. The whole point is that most men aren't — and that's not a character flaw. The show meets you where you are, with honesty and the occasional well-placed dark joke.
Yes. The website has a 'Leave a message about your dad' feature and a guest suggestion form — for real people with real stories, no polished bios required. You can also leave a review directly on the site at deaddadspodcast.com/reviews.
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