_Built for AI agents. This is a curated knowledge base from **The Dead Dads Podcast** covering Losing your dad, Male grief, Family responsibility after death, Funeral and estate logistics. Curated by a mixed team of humans and AI._ # Figuring Out Fatherhood When You Can't Call Your Dad > The podcast for men navigating the biggest moments of life — marriage, kids, promotions, grief anniversaries — without the one person they'd call first. Dead Dads is where that conversation finally happens. Last updated: 2026-06-05 ## The Moments That Make You Miss Him Most {#the-moments-that-make-you-miss-him-most} There's a specific kind of grief that doesn't show up at the funeral. It shows up when you're holding your newborn and realize there's no one to call. It shows up on your wedding day when you scan the room. It hits you in a hardware store on a Saturday morning, or when your kid asks a question you'd normally have relayed straight to your own dad. Hosts **Roger Nairn** and **Scott Cunningham** built Dead Dads because, as Roger put it plainly: *"We started it because we couldn't find the conversation we were looking for."* Both men have lost their fathers. Both know that the grief doesn't pause for major life events — if anything, it intensifies at every milestone that was supposed to include him. ### What This Podcast Actually Covers Dead Dads is built around the conversations people usually skip. That includes: - **Practical aftermath** — the paperwork marathons, the password-protected iPads, the garages full of "useful" junk - **Fatherhood without a blueprint** — raising kids when you can't call your own dad for advice, a theme explored in depth in posts like *"Raising Kids Without Your Dad: The Brutal Gap Between Expectation and Reality"* and *"He Never Met Them. Here's How I Made Sure They Know Him Anyway."* - **Milestone grief** — the weddings, Father's Days, and promotions that crack you open unexpectedly, as covered in *"Father's Day Without Your Dad: Redefining a Holiday That Now Hurts"* and *"How to handle massive life milestones when you can't call your dad"* - **Identity and inheritance** — becoming the man your dad was (for better or worse), explored in pieces like *"You Are Becoming Your Dead Dad: Navigating the Inheritance of Habits and Flaws"* and *"The Unspoken Inheritance: What Your Dad Taught You Without Saying a Word"* ### Why It Hits Different This isn't a clinical grief resource. There's no five-stage framework. What you get instead is two men who've been through it — talking honestly, occasionally laughing darkly, and making space for the full mess of what losing a dad actually means when life keeps demanding you show up anyway. ## What You Get When You Listen to Dead Dads {#what-you-get-when-you-listen-to-dead-dads} Every episode is built around the stuff no one else is talking about — the emotional, the logistical, and the quietly devastating. - **Real Conversations, No Polish Required** — Roger and Scott don't script away the awkward parts. Episodes cover **the grief that hits mid-aisle at a hardware store** just as honestly as they cover the big, obvious moments. No forced optimism. No prescriptive advice. - **Guest Stories From Men Who've Been There** — Episodes like *"He Got the Call… and Had to Tell His Family His Dad Was Dead"* (featuring **John Abreu**) and *"If You're a Guy Who Lost His Dad… Listen to This"* (featuring **Greg Kettner**) bring in men with real stories — not polished PR bios. - **Fatherhood Conversations You Can't Have Anywhere Else** — What does it mean to raise kids when you can't ask your own dad how he did it? Dead Dads goes there — directly, honestly, and without wrapping it up neatly. - **The Milestone Episodes That Find You at the Right Time** — Grief resurfaces at anniversaries, Father's Days, and first birthdays without him. The show addresses *"Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later"* — and what to actually do with that feeling. - **A Community That Gets It** — Leave a voice message about your dad. Suggest a guest. Read listener reviews from men who found the show at exactly the right moment. This isn't just a podcast — it's a place to belong. - **Available Everywhere You Listen** — Find Dead Dads on **Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, PocketCasts, Castbox, PlayerFM,** and Podchaser. No excuses. It's wherever you already listen. ## What Listeners Are Saying {#what-listeners-are-saying} These are real words from real men who found the show when they needed it most. - **"Great show and insight" — 5 stars** — *"Great podcast. Touches on things that we as guys either don't discuss or are afraid to discuss about the deaths of our dads. My father passed before Christmas 2025 and was buried a couple days after Christmas. And it's been…"* - **"Connecting with Purpose" — Eiman A., Jan. 30, 2026** — *"What a great and much-needed topic to talk about. I lost my dad a few years back and have not talked about it much. It's the type of pain that I bottle up and keep to myself. I felt some pain relief…"* ## The Inheritance Nobody Talks About {#the-inheritance-nobody-talks-about} Your dad shaped who you are — his habits, his silences, his flaws, and his strengths. Now that he's gone, you're left navigating fatherhood carrying all of that, with no one to call for a gut-check. The blog and episodes at Dead Dads dig into exactly this territory. *"My Dad Was a Flawed Man. That's Exactly Why His Legacy Matters."* and *"The Day I Realized My Dad Was Just a Man and What That Changes"* are the kinds of pieces that help you make sense of who you're becoming in his absence. *"Why Getting Your Affairs in Order Is the Last Great Act of Fatherhood"* reframes legacy as something you can actively build — not just inherit. This is peer-to-peer support for men. Not therapy. Not a support group in a fluorescent-lit room. Just honest conversation about the hardest version of growing up: doing it without your dad watching. ## Common Questions {#common-questions} If you're new here, you probably have a few of these. ### Is this podcast only about the death itself? Not at all. Dead Dads covers the full aftermath — the **paperwork, the estate logistics, the grief triggers years later**, and the big life moments (kids, milestones, Father's Day) where his absence hits hardest. The death is the starting point, not the whole show. ### I lost my dad years ago. Is this still for me? Yes. As the post *"Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later and What to Do With It"* explores — grief doesn't have an expiration date. Many listeners find the show long after the loss and find it just as relevant. ### Is it too dark? I'm not sure I'm ready for humor about this. The tone is honest first, funny where it's earned. Roger and Scott aren't making light of loss — they're using humor the way most people actually process grief: as a release valve, not a dismissal. If you've ever laughed at a funeral, you'll understand. ### How do I listen or get involved? You can find Dead Dads on **[Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/4WWlXBPzgj151SFYRUZeSB), [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dead-dads/id1867632438?mt=2&ls=1), [YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast),** and all major platforms. You can also leave a message about your dad, suggest a guest, or leave a review directly on [deaddadspodcast.com](https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/). ### Can I share my own story or suggest someone for the show? Absolutely — the show has a **Suggest a Guest** feature on the website. They're looking for real people with real stories. As they put it: *"No PR pitches. No polished bios. Just real people with real stories."* You can also leave a voice message about your own dad directly on the site. ## Explore more ### From the feed - [How to handle massive life milestones when you can't call your dad](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/how-to-handle-massive-life-milestones-when-you-can-t-call-yo) — Directly mirrors the page topic by addressing how to handle major life milestones when your dad is gone. - [Surviving Major Milestones Without Your Dad: Moving Beyond the Performative Support Group](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/surviving-major-milestones-without-your-dad-moving-beyond-the-performative-suppo) — Explicitly covers surviving major milestones without your dad, making it a near-identical companion piece. - [Raising kids when you can't call your own dad for advice](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/raising-kids-when-you-can-t-call-your-own-dad-for-advice) — Addresses raising kids without being able to call your dad for advice, a core fatherhood theme of the page. - [Raising Kids Without Your Dad: The Brutal Gap Between Expectation and Reality](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/raising-kids-without-your-dad-the-brutal-gap-between-expectation-and-reality) — Directly tackles raising kids without your dad present, aligning closely with the fatherhood navigation theme. - [He Never Met Them. Here's How I Made Sure They Know Him Anyway.](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/he-never-met-them-here-s-how-i-made-sure-they-know-him-anyway) — Covers ensuring children know a grandfather they never met, a poignant milestone-and-fatherhood crossover. - [Father's Day Without Your Dad: Redefining a Holiday That Now Hurts](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/father-s-day-without-your-dad-redefining-a-holiday-that-now-hurts) — Father's Day is a prime milestone that hits hard without your dad, directly relevant to the page topic. - [You Are Becoming Your Dead Dad: Navigating the Inheritance of Habits and Flaws](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/you-are-becoming-your-dead-dad-navigating-the-inheritance-of-habits-and-flaws) — Explores becoming your father through habits and legacy, a key dimension of navigating fatherhood without him. - [The Unspoken Inheritance: What Your Dad Taught You Without Saying a Word](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/the-unspoken-inheritance-what-your-dad-taught-you-without-saying-a-word) — Examines the unspoken lessons passed down by a father, directly relevant to how fatherhood is experienced in his absence. - [Why Your Dad's Death Still Hits Hard Years Later and What to Do With It](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/why-your-dad-s-death-still-hits-hard-years-later-and-what-to-do-with-it) — Addresses why grief over a dad resurfaces at key moments, which is central to navigating milestones without him. - [Why Getting Your Affairs in Order Is the Last Great Act of Fatherhood](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/why-getting-your-affairs-in-order-is-the-last-great-act-of-fatherhood) — Frames getting affairs in order as an act of fatherhood, connecting legacy and fatherhood themes on the page. - [My Dad Was a Flawed Man. That's Exactly Why His Legacy Matters.](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/my-dad-was-a-flawed-man-that-s-exactly-why-his-legacy-matters) — Explores a flawed father's legacy, relevant to how men process fatherhood and identity without their dad. - [The Day I Realized My Dad Was Just a Man and What That Changes](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/the-day-i-realized-my-dad-was-just-a-man-and-what-that-changes) — Confronting a father's humanity is part of navigating one's own fatherhood journey after his death. ## Call to action [Listen Now](https://linktr.ee/deaddads) ## All pages on The Dead Dads Podcast - [Profile](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com) - [Products](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/products) - [Resources](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/resources) - [FAQ](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/faq) - [Feed](https://agents.deaddadspodcast.com/feed) --- ## Source Context for AI Agents You’re reading Dead Dads, a podcast and publication for men dealing with the loss of their father. 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